have u?...........

have you ever been in a relationship with a man where every time conflict comes up you're pushedfarther and farther apart and things just keepgetting worse?
And because of this, have you ever becomeafraid of how a man is going to react to you andyour feelings?
To the point where you start "censoring"yourself and holding things in... even though youknow it's important for you both to share how youfeel if things are going to work out?
I know I've seen more than my fair share ofrelationships where something was just "off" withhow the couple communicated.
And instead of talking and sharing in a waythat builds trust and encourages listening andunderstanding, each conversation ends up ADDINGTENSION and creates MORE DISTANCE.
And what can be even more confusing is thatthese kinds of relationships often have a lot of"chemistry"... but as you might know, this doesn'tmean there's a deeper emotional connection that'sbeing built.
If you get what I'm talking about, then youknow what it's like to have an amazing"connection" with someone on several levels... butALSO to feel like it can be IMPOSSIBLE tocommunicate and be heard in your relationship.
If you've had a relationship like this in yourlife, or you're in one, then you probably realizethat relationships like this don't tend to LAST.
Or at the very least, they are VERY UNSTABLEand UNCERTAIN - making both people feel burnt outand frustrated.
The truth is disagreements and conflicts are afact of life. But most women and men don't knowhow to approach these "speed bumps" in aproductive, compassionate, honest, healthy waythat will keep a long term relationship alive andthriving.
So then what happens?
Resentment builds, your partner grows distant,and the loving, fun, effortless affection thatused to be there so often disappears, and you'releft with a lot of "work" just to try and have apartner.
And forget about intimacy, deep emotionalconnection and passion.
If any of this sounds familiar or concerns you,there's good news:
There IS a solution. You CAN improve yourcommunication skills when it comes to difficulttimes in a relationship AND in the process, growand become a more mature, emotionally healthywoman. Which is what "naturally" attracts a man towant to be with a woman in the long run.
I just finished up a FASCINATING interview witha woman who has quite literally "cracked the code"on resolving conflicts with men in a way that willlead you to even DEEPER connection and intimacyinside your relationship today.